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Here's a quick story about a date I had last night.

Now, when you're trying to score with a woman, you've got to eliminate her feelings of UNCERTAINTY.

Women have all kinds of reasons to NOT talk to us, to NOT give us their phone number, to NOT go on a date, and to NOT have sex with us.

And a lot of this is because they don't feel SECURE with you yet.

So here's a real fast tip if you want to take a woman on a date...

Don't offer to pick her up. This might set off "red flags" in her mind. If she barely knows you, she might not want you to know where she lives.

This is understandable. A lot of guys (not like you) have stalker-ish tendencies, and maybe she's been through this with a guy before. Or maybe she knows a girl who has.

So if you barely know the girl, but you got her phone number, and now it's time to take her out, don't suggest picking her up.

Here's what you do instead. Tell her to meet you out in front of your place. Give her your address, tell her to meet you out front at a certain time, and tell her that the two of you can "roll together" to the spot.

(The bar, coffee shop, restaurant, party, etc -- wherever you plan on taking her tonight.)

She'll go for this suggestion because of two reasons:

A) It eliminates her fear that she's going to

Why Are Women Flaking Out On You?

>>> A Question From Justin:

Hey Dean,

I'm halfway through your M.A.C.K. Tactics program. Awesome stuff. I got a question for you. Maybe you cover it in a later chapter, but I need to find the answer out right now because this situation is driving me crazy...

Last week I met a girl at a party, had a cool conversation with her, and invited her to accompany me to a concert which was happening a few nights later. She enthusiastically agreed.

Then, the day of the concert, she called me and told me she couldn't make it. (Something about her best friend having some problem she needed to deal with.)

Normally, I would give her the benefit of the doubt and believe she really did get busy at the last minute.

But this has happened to me numerous times: I ask the girl out, she agrees, and then she calls me the day of the date with some flimsy-sounding excuse.

What's this all about, and how can I stop this from happening?

>>> My Comments:

If you ask girls out on dates on a regular basis, chances are they usually say "yes."

However, you've probably also found that a lot of these dates never actually pan out.

For some reason or another, on the day of the date, you get "the phone call." You know, the one where she tells you some lame-sounding reason why she can't make it, and she apologizes, and you both agree to reschedule for "some other time."

This is a part of the mating ritual. When a man proposes a first date, he is almost NEVER turned down on the spot.

Instead, the prescribed social norm is for the woman to "accept" his offer, even if she really has no interest in seeing him again.

Then, she'll wait until the day of the date, call the man between five hours and 15 minutes prior to the appointed time, and cancel.

A woman will never tell you, "I thought it over, and I'm really not into you, so let's not waste our time ... "

Instead, she'll give you one of the classic excuses:

"You'll never guess who just stopped by."

(Incredibly, a half-hour before the date, women will tell you their sister, best friend, or some long-lost acquaintance dropped in on them unexpectedly.)

She might

Make Women Say Yes! To You EVERY TIME

I've talked to hundreds of women about the qualities they find most attractive in men, and a sense of humor is usually the first quality they mention.

But are women being phony when they say this?

Are they giving this answer because they don't want to appear shallow-when what they really want is a tall, muscular hunk with a ton of cash?

If the ability to make a woman laugh was such a huge turn-on, then wouldn't stand-up comedians get laid more than rock stars?

We all know guys with a "class clown" personality who are constantly saying hilarious things, and they're usually the LAST guys to hook up. Women find them amusing, but don't feel any sexual attraction.

Here's the truth.

When women say they love a sense of humor, what they really mean is they love the deeper ATTITUDE that a sense of humor points to.

Guys who are funny, playful and nonchalant around women - and even better, can bust on women and tease them a little - are obviously confident and in control of their reality.

These guys don't look to women for approval.

They don't radiate anxiety.

They never seem like they NEED to get a woman's phone number or hook up with her. This goes back to two principles that are revealed in the M.A.C.K. Tactics Program:

1. Women are attracted to men who present a challenge.
2. Women are fascinated by men who are "in demand" and obviously have other romantic/sexual options.

Women, by nature, are jealous and competitive when it comes to men. Give her the sense that she'll have to step up and WIN you away from other women, and the game is on!

KEEPING A Beautiful Woman
Interested In You

You've probably got some VERY hot girlfriends right now, as a result of stuff you've learned here in our newsletters as well ;)

BUT... this is what I see happening quite a bit these days...

The truth is, even though a big number of you are starting to get the girls, something strange begins to happen...

As soon as they start dating a hot chick, they REVERT BACK to being a needy "wussy guy" who will do anything to keep getting sex from her ;)

So, they keep a hot chick for a few weeks or a few months... but then it all FALLS APART.

Listen.

Most guys go through life without EVER getting the women they truly desire, because they think women are a "mystery" that is impossible to solve.

And so, they try to give a woman the things they THINK women want.

Some guys will spend money on her...

Some guys will always AGREE with her, and never challenge her opinions...

But most often, when a guy likes a woman, he will constantly make himself available to her. He thinks by spending the maximum amount of TIME with her -- and making her feel he's "always there" -- she'll eventually come around and start feeling attraction towards him.

The problem is, attraction does NOT work this way.

When you spend endless hours talking to her about life, and her problems, she may feel AFFECTION towards you.

The same emotion she feels towards her girl friends, and her gay hair dresser...

Or, towards her brother...

Or, her puppy.

But does she want to SLEEP with any of them?! Hell no!!

You see, sexual ATTRACTION is a whole different story. And it does NOT come from giving her gifts, taking her on

Make Women WANT You... Here's How

I want to talk about the Rule of Reciprocity today: an extremely powerful sales technique that plays on our nature as human beings.

Basically, the Rule states that when you give something to someone for "free," they're going to feel OBLIGATED to do something for you in return ... even if it's something of much greater value.

There are many ways to apply this Rule to women, and to make them feel "indebted" to you (in a good way).

The problem is, most guys do things for women CONSTANTLY and get NOTHING in return.

A student of mine, Gary, recently returned to the dating scene after breaking up with his girlfriend. He's a smart, funny guy.

He didn't have a problem with meeting new girls, getting phone numbers, and lining up dates ...

But Gary had a pattern of being blown off by girls AFTER the first or second date.

This always surprised him. He thought these dates went pretty well, and that he was laying solid groundwork. He expected to see the girls again.

But when trying to line up the second or third date, he would run into resistance.

The girls wouldn't return his calls, or they would make up an excuse about how "busy" they were.

Worst of all, some girls hit him with the dreaded line, "You're a really great guy, but I just like you as a friend."

(Which is chick-speak for, "you might as well give up, buddy, I'd sleep with my brother before I'd ever bang you.")

So, I asked Gary to tell us what his idea of a typical date consisted of.

He told us about his most recent effort, with a girl named Mandy. On the first date, he spent $100 taking her to lunch at a nice sushi restaurant.

On the second date, he took her to dinner and a movie. He chose one of the best Italian restaurants in town, ordered them a bottle of wine, and spent $250 on the evening.

At the end of the night she just gave him a hug goodnight, but Gary