People always say that communication is key in a relationship. But how do you gain that communication with your partner?

The first step is to listen. Listen to the information given to you and hear it at heart. Let what she is saying really absorb into your brain and feel what she feels. Make sure when you listen that you are not judgmental but you are instead open and honest.

Speak in a way that the other person can not argue about. Basically, tell it like it is. For example, “I feel bad when you leave the house without saying goodbye”1 Both parts of this statement are facts.

Make sure you tell your partner how much you appreciate him/her. Have a ratio of 5:1 of appreciate:complain. Dont constantly complain to your partner; make sure he/she knows that they are appreciated. 

Instead of complaining about