HOW TO MAKE HIM YOURS

10 Tricks to Learn How to Make Him Yours

Sorry ladies, guess what? There are no tricks when it comes to love. This powerful emotional force does not bow to whims of the imagination or to calibrated actions. Love is a mystery and we cannot choose whom we will fall for, or who will fall for us.

That said, there are a few little tricks you can do to make the man you like spend a little more time with you, and the more time you spend together gives the object of your desire more motivation and inspiration to realize that you are indeed the woman he cannot live without.

10 TRICKS TO MAKE HIM YOURS

First make sure that you really want to be the woman he cannot live without, and then try these ten tricks to make him yours. If he is not wrapped around your pinkie after #10, it is time to move on and find a guy who is just that into you:

MAKE HIM YOURS TRICK #1: Be a success, or be on your way to success, even if you are still at step one. Have goals and a brilliant life stretched out before you, an amazing array of experiences to which a man is just the cherry on top. No one wants the pressure of being completely responsible for another person’s happiness or goals in life, and many women fall into the trap of thinking the right man will cure everything wrong in her life. Today both men and women are looking for a partner to share their life experiences with, and no one wants dead weight. To find an amazing partner, you have to be an amazing partner.

SIGNS THAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS OVER

Are You Sensing The End Is Near? Here Are Signs That Your Relationship Is Over!

When you are in a relationship, you are constantly evaluating it, consciously or otherwise. Are your feelings of stagnation and worry the normal characteristics of an ongoing relationship, or do they indicate something more serious, like a need to separate ways?

Only you can know if you would be better off alone. Just the fact that you are reading this article is a fairly big sign that you may be wanting out of your current relationship. But read through the many indications that it is over, and by the end of the page you will probably have a better idea (and a deeper gut feeling) whether or not to call it quits.

Remember, relationships take work , sacrifice and commitment, and these are not always fun things to experience. But conversely, many people stay in dead or dying relationships because it is easier and more convenient that being alone, which is hard and can be terrifying. However, as a dinner of gas station hot dogs shows, just because something is easier and more convenient does not mean it is the best choice or good for you. The last thing you want to do is to wake up in a few years and realize you should have dumped his sorry ass ages ago.

SIGNS THAT IT’S OVER

Is it over? Here are some signs. Alone they may mean nothing (plenty of men don’t get along with their in-laws), but added together can be an unavoidable sign that your relationship needs to end.

Sign That It’s Over: You rarely ever touch feet anymore. Humans only touch feet with people they are very, very close with. People in new relationships are constantly playing footsie and such. If you and your man are no longer cuddling feet, it is a huge sign that you are withdrawing from each other emotionally. Pay attention to your tootsies.

Sign That It’s Over: He starts staying out in the evenings if you live together, or hanging out with you less if you don’t. This is true even if he has a valid and perfectly logical reason, like basketball with the boys, more hours at the office, or sudden friends from out of town. If he likes you, he will want to hang out with you. If he doesn’t want to spend at least some of his free time with you, there is a big problem.

Sign That It’s Over: Feelings of disgust and contempt are signs that a relationship is doomed. Watch for small gestures and facial expressions that he makes, and listen to his tone of voice when he speaks to you. Is he talking down?

Sign That It’s Over: This goes both ways- does he disgust you? Do you recoil at his touch, or at the thought of his caresses? Bad sign.