Secrets of Good Relationships

CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS

A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, and requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one."

The officer said, "Your requirements, please."

RIGHT SPEECH

Right speech is the basic foundation of diplomacy.

There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation."

NO POINTING FINGERS 

A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage.  Could you please share with me your secret?"

NO OVERPOWERING

Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much.

BE PATIENT

 This is a true story which happened in the States.  A man came out of his home to admire his new truck.  To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck.

The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment.