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There are certain areas in all friendships that are marked as 'no go areas'. These are places that stretch the friendship to a limit and result in its breakdown. A good friendship is a partnership that is built on loyalty, trust, love and dedication for both people concerned. Below are seven of the worst acts that can be committed in a friendship that could lead to the loss of these core values in the partnership.
1. Betrayal
Betrayal is at the top of the list of the most deadly sins because it takes away trust. When trust is lost in a friendship there is no reason to be a part of it. Betrayal should not be measured on its type or value. In other words betraying a friend on those things that we consider least important to us and the friendship does not defeat the fact that we have betrayed them. It should not happen at all for the friendship to remain intact. Most times the person that comes off worst in these circumstances is the culprit rather than the victim. The victim may appear to be hurt but it is the culprit that has to live with his actions.
Yes, we were lovers in Paris; we even lived together, for about one year. But then each of us followed a different path. I am 80 years old, a grandfather in the USA; she, only three years younger, is a grandmother in France. There is nothing unusual in this.
In October 2010 my wife and I were in France for a family gathering. Too bad that I decided not to read all my email messages while there. A very large number of them accumulated, and once at home I started deleting most messages without reading. That's what I often do after being away for more than one week. And suddenly, ready to delete, I noticed a familiar name. Can it be she, I asked myself. ProbablySometimes we fall out with friends. There may have been a disagreement, a misunderstanding, or we both feel sure that we are right and the other is mistaken in some way. I am a big advocate of keeping only positive people in our lives and feel strongly that it is important to sometimes clear out negative and destructive relationships from our inner circle.
Sometimes, though, it can be appropriate to heal friendships whilst, at the same time, recognising and acknowledging what has happened between us.
Let's look at some of the reasons to heal the friendship:
- It can be stimulating to have people with different attitudes and outlooks in our lives. Yes, it can be very cosy, having lots’sYou are now following this blog.
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