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If you’ve ever seen a guy in a bar walk up to a girl he didn’t know and make out with her almost immediately, it can be a completely mind-blowing experience. It may seem like it’s magical or out of reach – a special ability or super-power that someone is born with.
But it’s not. And it can be broken down into a few simple steps you can follow in order to make the same thing happen for you. In this article, I’m going to break down those steps.
The first step is to realize that about 90% of the difference between someone who’s really good with women and someone who’s not so good or mediocre with women, is the ability to spot a woman who’s ready to make out.
I know it sounds kind of crazy at first, but it’s true. If you walk into a bar and go up to any woman without knowing what signs to look for, your odds of success go WAY down.
You must know how to spot that woman who’s already in this “make-out ready” state, so you can walk up and be “that guy.”
Don’t buy into the myth that women don’t want this to happen.
Women are as sexual (if not more sexual) than guys are. Most of the time, this “turbo” make-out session never happens, because so many guys are afraid to go for it. And when this doesn’t happen, the girls end up going home alone or worse.. staying being kind of mean to a lot of guys in the bar/being resentful and angry because no one’s approaching them.
By putting this technique into practice, You want to discover how to see the women who you’re able to make out with in 40 seconds or less in the first place.
There are a few excellent indicators that will (especially in a bar atmosphere) tell you if a woman is game, or ready for an instant make-out session.
What To Look For
The first indicator is a woman looking down often. When a woman looks down often, she is accessing her emotions.
Let me explain… When we look in different directions, we access different parts of our brain. These are called “Eye Accessing Cues.” When a woman is in a bar setting and looking down, she’s accessing her emotional brain.
If she makes eye contact with you, looks down then back up again, she’s saying: “I have an emotional response to you looking at me and I’m looking down.” And if she tilts her head down as well (and doesn’t just use her eyes to look down), she’s physically dropping herself a little bit lower and showing submission.
This gives you the ability to walk up and be the dominant man.
Now, if she looks at you, smiles and doesn’t look away, this could be a lot more difficult situation. Socially, she’s meeting you head on, and not showing immediate submission.
Women who you’re going to be able to walk up to and make out with in 40 seconds or less should automatically take the submissive role as a woman. That’s one quality which shows you’ll be able to quickly make out with her.
Another quality is that she’s actively looking around to make eye contact. This is crucial. A woman who is engaged with someone specifically and she’s not looking away is not going to be as easy to seduce in 40 seconds or less. It’s going to take much longer.
Again, you’re going to have to play a totally different kind of game when you walk up. You can’t just walk up and make out with her.
So instead, if you see a woman who is in a conversation but she’s constantly looking around and trying to make eye contact with a lot of people, this is probably a very, very likely opportunity for you and that’s a woman you can walk up to and immediately become sexual with.
Other traits are revealed in the way they’re moving and how
You constantly look for ways to display your love.
And you’re always eager to please your girlfriend just to see a smile on her face.
But love is a game of stages.
And irrespective of whether you’re still infatuated by your girl or deeply in love with her, the easiest way to let her know you care is by displaying your affection.
If you’ve been in a relationship for a while now, the cheesy displays of love and public display of affection would probably have come down a notch or two.
And that’s completely acceptable. After all, we can’t really stay in the infatuation stage all our life, can we?
Sweet things to do with your girlfriend
As the relationship evolves, the guy generally stops trying too hard to please his girlfriend *now that he’s wooed her and won her over*. And this is when insecurities and confusions in love start to come out in the open.
But if you truly love your girlfriend and want to make her feel loved and secure in the relationship, don’t stop indulging in romantic gestures.
Affectionate gestures may not really prove your love for her, but it’ll surely make her feel special and cared for.
A little more love and fun can make both your lives a lot happier and meaningful. After all, the happiest of relationships are the ones filled with romantic and playful gestures.
36 really sweet things to do with your girlfriend to make her feel loved
The sweetest things you can do for your girlfriend are the smallest and effortless ones. It’s the gestures you display when she least expects it. Use any of these 36 things to do with your girlfriend, and your relationship will become a lot happier, playful and spontaneous in no time!
#2 Go out impromptu. If both of you are just relaxing at home, plan something spontaneous and take her out for ice cream or coffee. Girls love spontaneous surprises.
#3 Help her with her chores. If you’re lazing around the house, and your girlfriend’s busy slaving on her chores, get your butt off and offer to help her.
#4 Motivate her. Motivation always works twice as well if both of you do things together. If your girlfriend’s struggling to keep herself motivated to do something, join her and work towards the goal together.
Contrary to what most of us believe, we don’t really fall in love at first sight. Almost always, it’s lust at first sight.
The intense attraction that you feel for someone when you first lock eyes with each other, those butterflies in your stomach and that skip in your heart, in all probability, is lust and not love.
But lusting for someone isn’t a bad thing, because love generally starts with lust and desire and grows and blossoms into love over a few weeks or months.
The happiest relationships are those where there’s a perfect balance of love and lust.
But what is it that you’re experiencing, is it love or lust?
Is it love or lust?
Often, our minds can get confused with the experiences and you may assume you or your new partner may be in love, when you’re just lusting for each other.
While sexual attraction is great to keep the chemistry alive, it’s no good in keeping a relationship happy and blissful.
When you’re in lust with someone, and not in love, you really don’t care about the future or the happy moments, all you care about is the urges in your pants.
It’s not always clear and easy to find out whether it’s love or lust, but these tips should help you find out if either you or your partner are truly in love or just experiencing lust for each other.
Thoughts at first sight
If you’re filled with happiness and can’t hold your smile back when you see your lover, you’re definitely in love with them. On the other hand, if you meet your lover and the first thing that comes to your mind every single time is how good looking or sexy they are, your relationship is based on lust rather than love.
Your feelings in loveDo you feel happy and romantic all day, and find yourself staring at happy things or smiling without realizing it yourself? You’re probably full of love. Or do you feel really sexy or sexually excited throughout
The eternal pursuit of finding the one is a painful and confusing ride, especially if you feel lost along the way.
Many of us don’t really try to find the one.
You may just get into a relationship with the first person who fancies you.
And months or years later, you may find yourself disappointed with the experience of love or may give up on ever finding the one who can make you happy.
How to find the one
Finding the one who’s perfect for you is a game of chance.
The lucky ones get to kiss the right frog the very first time they date someone.
For a few others, there may be a series of frogs that have to be kissed.
If you really want to understand the secret behind knowing how to find the one, you need to look out and meet a lot of great people.
And somewhere along the way, you’d definitely meet someone who’ll take your breath away, sooner or later.
In the introduction on how to meet the one, you’ve read about the places to find the one, the kind of friends you need and the works. Here, we’ll get to the other things you need to know to find the one for you.#6 Are you learning from
Are you wondering how to find love? Learn to understand the secret law of attraction in love, and you’ll see that knowing how to find true love can be as easy as a walk in the park.
But if you really want to understand the law of attraction in love, you need to understand the system, and how it really works.
The whole world is full of patterns and logical explanations, but when it comes to love and how it works, it’s surprisingly easy and yet, totally mysterious.
How to find love
There are many couples who have been together since forever, but even they haven’t found love in each other’s eyes. So if you’re single and feeling hopelessly lost, don’t fret. You really are not alone.
You could read huge research papers or listen to therapists about their definition of love and try to learn from them.
But it really won’t take you anywhere. After all, love isn’t a road map to go from one place to another.
Love is like a magical recipe that changes with each person. And no therapy or study papers can help you there.
There are so many couples who have actually given up on finding love, and carry on their lives talking about fairytale romances and romantic movies with their friends, but they don’t really try to find love in their own lives.
What are you looking for?
If you’re trying to find love, what are you looking for? How do YOU find love? Understanding this will be the key to opening up better avenues and paths in your search for love. Try to pinpoint the type of partner that you’re looking for.What are the most important aspects that you want in your partner? Knowing how
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